Especially Blessed

Good Night and God Bless

2009-03-26T14:07:00.002-04:00

Hey everybody! I know I don't reach much of an audience with this blog, so this won't really crush too many blog readers' hearts, but I've decided to end this blog.

It's time. This will be my 200th post. I've really stopped posting anything of any significance. More importantly, my focus has changed. I've decided to dedicate a lot of my free time to reaching people in the RVA and Tri-cities area for Christ.

My new blog will be rvaseedsowers.wordpress.com .

Hope to see you there!

God bless you all!

-Chris

Simple Marriage Advice

2009-03-12T16:10:00.002-04:00

Read some of the most straight forward marriage advice that I've read in a long time today over on John Piper's blog. Read it. Thanks!

Snow Cream Madness

2009-03-02T18:11:00.001-05:00

I copied my buddy Chris and made some snow cream tonight. Kids loved it. Make it for your kids, they'll love it.

Below is the recipe, if you can call it that:

1 egg, optional
1/2 c. brown sugar
1 tsp. vanilla
1/2 c. cream
2 qt. fresh clean snow

In a medium mixing bowl, combine egg, sugar, vanilla and cream. Put snow in a large bowl and pour egg mixture over it. Stir quickly before the snow melts. Taste add more sugar and vanilla if needed.

Love - A Valentine's Day Recap

2009-02-16T11:26:00.002-05:00

So with the end of 2008 stinking up the joint for my family and the beginning of 2009 not being much better, Belinda and I didn't really have any bangup plans for Valentine's day. Someone was nice enough to donate tickets to our church's Valentine's Day banquet, so we went.

It was very nice. Everyone did a great job of decorating up the gym to look really fancy. We enjoyed ourselves and even went out for a coffee at the Books-A-Million after the fact (I know! I know! Wild times in Col. Hgts.!)

During the banquet, our youth pastor gave a great devotional. He talked about the order of love in your life. Where your love of the Lord?

Let me say that Belinda and I have had a recommitment to our marriage recently. Through a lot of things, we've just decided that it's important and we're gonna make it work better. I love her more that anyone on this Earth.

My kids are awesome! They bring me so much joy, it's ridiculous.

Both of those things being said, my time with both Belinda and my kids is relatively short. I've got eternity to spend at the feet of my Lord. The believer's relationship with Christ is described as a marriage. Am I treating it as such? Does my love for Him trump it all?

I'm trying to move to more of a place where that love is the cause for all that I do. I'm not there, but I want to be. Nothing but good things will come out of loving Jesus as much as I possibly can because as the ol' song goes, "He first loved me."

Hope y'all had a good Valentine's day! God Bless!

Pro Life Super Bowl Commerical Squashed

2009-01-30T13:19:00.001-05:00

NBC decided not to air any advocacy commericals during the Super Bowl. Ok. That's their perogative.

Watch the pro-life commercial that got squashed because of that policy. Pretty powerful, huh?

Too, too sad!

2009-01-28T16:15:00.002-05:00

This story is over at CNN.com right now. To read of a family that thought it better to kill themselves and their children rather than continue to live is so tragic. Is our economy really the culprit? Or is it society? Where was the local church? Where were the neighbors, friends, agencies, anyone?!?!? Five children are dead!

I know that this family may not have reached out for help, but how much more can we as a body of Christ form a safety net of some kind?

I pray to our ever gracious God that He be with this family. Are they in His hands? I hope so! Heavenly Father also please be with families (including mine) that are struggling because of unemployment or other economic hardships. Please help your body share and serve those that need help so badly.

What if?

2009-01-27T13:18:00.002-05:00

What if I didn't lose my job and now face giant financial hurdles?

What if I didn't meet Belinda and fall for her in face of all the things put in our way?

What if I actually said everything I was thinking to that coworker that I couldn't stand?

What if I didn't act like a jerk to my kids so much?

What if I didn't need to ask so many questions and need so many answers?

What if I posed these questions to people that cared for me instead of the faceless internet?

What if I claimed every promise that God makes and believed it 100% of the time no questions asked?

What if I still went by my middle name instead of my first?

What if I went back to school?

What if God didn't raise Jesus from the dead? What would've happened then?

What if I was as good as a friend as I want others to be to me?

What if I talked to that person I was meaning to talk to about Christ but chickened out?

What ifs really don't get us very far. They typically deal with things that have already happened. I can't change those things, but I often act like I can with all of the questions that float through my head.

A verse that has struck me recently is John 8:58. It's just so clear in the way that Christ claims that He is God and has been since the beginning of time. This verse gives me strength in knowinig that my Lord has been, is now, and always will be.

Praise God that He is the great I AM!!!

So I've Come Down

2009-01-26T09:51:00.002-05:00

Over and over again God comes down from on high to bring us up out of the stuff we get in to. I'm reading Exodus now. It's also the subject of the community's winter bible study that I'm attending.

Check out the beginning of Exodus 3:8. It says, "and I have come down to deliver them out of the hand of the Egyptians and to bring them up out of that land to a good and broad land..."

He is a God of meeting us in the place where we're at, even when it's a desolate region like Midian, and bringing us up to the place that He wants us to be.

Thank you God for coming down and lifting us up.

Jon Bon Jovi Got Me Thinkin'

2009-01-22T15:45:00.001-05:00

I very rarely listen to music in the car. If the radio is on, it's usually on talk radio of some sort. Every now and again, I'll get wild and switch it over to the FM dial and rock out to some of the classics.

Today, my buddy and yours, Jon Bon Jovi and friends were singing about how he's wanted dead or alive. I sang along out loud (stop laughing now...you know you do it every time you here this song).

But in all seriousness, the theme of this song really got me thinking. Here is this rockband at the top of their career singing about how hard life on the road is.

Talk about the season of discontent. These guys have it all by the world's standards, but life is still life. They still feel the same feelings we all do.

Music is a powerful thing. It's a way to help us connect to feelings that we may have forgotten or haven't felt in a long time.

Bon Jovi really reminded me of how easy it is to become discontented. While it's never as easy as just turning on the happy switch to get out of a funk, it really is a subconscious decision we make to praise God in all circumstances. I've failed at that recently and thank Mr. Bon Jovi for reminding me on looking heavenward for my source of content. 'Cause even if you're a rocker, you often feel you're wanted dead or alive (wow, that's such a bad play on words it hurts).

Now crank up the volume and sing along!

George Washington Said It Best

2009-01-20T12:46:00.002-05:00

After listening to a beautifully poignant speech by our new president, I too point to George Washington, as President Obama did.

"It is the duty of all Nations to acknowledge the providence of Almighty God, to obey his will, to be grateful for his benefits, and humbly to implore his protection and favors."

and...

"It is impossible to rightly govern the world without God and Bible."

I pray President Obama takes those words to heart.

I'm Excited About Tomorrow

2009-01-19T13:13:00.003-05:00

I didn't vote for Barack Obama. I don't agree with most of the ideas he's floated out there during the campaign and since.

That being said, I'm truly excited about being alive when the first African American president will be innaugurated. What a historical event to witness! I pray God's blessings on the new president, his family, and his administration.

For those on the right that want to continue harangue about how terrible Obama's election is, I refer you to Romans 12:9-13:7.

God bless the new president and God bless the United States of America.

Cool Test To Take

2009-01-17T20:40:00.003-05:00

I just took a worship style assessment over here. I usually don't put a whole lot into these type of tests, but this one hit the nail right on the head.

I came out as someone who likes activist type worship. If you know me personally, you're probably laughing at how true that is. What's really cool is that contemplative and intellectual come in at a close second and third, which is right on the money as well!

The descriptions of each of the worship types are below. Go take the test for yourself and let me know what it says about you. By the way, I found the link to this test on Gary Means' Blessed Are the Poor in Spirit blog. Check him out.

Sacred PathwaysWorship Style Assessment

Chris -Based on your responses to the Sacred Pathways Assessment, your temperament favors an Activist approach to worship.

Intellectual 21

Contemplative 22

Enthusiast 18

Caregiver 17

Activist 24

Ascetic 17

Traditionalist 16

Sensate 14

Naturalist 14

The information contained in this online assessment has been borrowed from the following book:"Sacred Pathways" by Gary L. Thomas© Copyright Zondervan Publishing, 2002click here to purchase this and other books by Gary Thomas, from Amazon.com

Summary of spiritual temperaments:
Intellectual - Loving God with the Mind:These Christians live in the world of concepts. They may feel closest to God when they first understand something new about Him.

Contemplative - Loving God through Adoration:These Christians seek to love God with the purest, deepest, and brightest love imaginable. They want nothing more than some privacy and quiet to gaze upon the face of their heavenly Lover and give all of themselves to God.

Enthusiast - Loving God with Mystery & Celebration:Excitement and mystery in worship is the spiritual lifeblood of enthusiasts. They are inspired by joyful celebration; cheerleaders for God and the Christian life. They don't want to just know concepts, but to experience them, to feel them, and to be moved by them. They like to let go and experience God on the precipice of excitement and awe.

Caregiver - Loving God by Loving Others:Caregivers serve God by serving others. They often claim to see Christ in the poor and needy, and their faith is built up by interacting with other people. Caring for others recharges a caregiver's batteries.

Activist - Loving God Through Confrontation:These Christians define worship as standing against evil and calling sinners to repentance. They are energized more by interaction with others, even in conflict, than by being alone or in small groups. Activists are spiritually nourished through the battle.

Ascetic - Loving God in Solitude and Simplicity:Ascetics want nothing more than to be left alone in prayer. Let there be nothing to distract them--no pictures, no loud music--and leave them alone to pray in silence and simplicity.

Traditionalist - Loving God Through Ritual and Symbol:Traditionalists are fed by what are often termed the historic dimensions of faith: rituals, symbols, sacraments, and sacrifice. They tend to have a disciplined life of faith and have a need for ritual and structure.

Sensate - Loving God with the Senses:Sensate Christians want to be lost in the awe, beauty, and splendor of God. They are drawn particularly to the liturgical, the majestic, the grand. They want to be filled with sights, sounds, and smells that overwhelm them. The five senses are God's most effective inroad to their hearts.

Naturalist - Loving God Out of Doors:The naturalist seeks to leave the formal architecture and the padded pews to enter an entirely new "cathedral", a place that God himself has built: the out-of-doors.

Blogger in Tenn. is Giving Away $6,100

2009-01-16T11:23:00.002-05:00

My fellow internets citizens. Check out Anne Jackson's blog. She's giving away $6,100! Go! Now!

Street Gangs Do It Better!

2009-01-16T10:32:00.004-05:00

Why do we overpromise and underdeliver? No one likes it. The person who makes the promise almost always feels impending doom because he knows he can't do what he said he was gonna do. On the other side of the coin you have the person who's expectations are not gonna be met.

I see this way too much in the church today.

People join a church for a sense of community...as a place to belong. The expectations are that you will find a community of like minded believers that will stand with you through thick and thin. Mike at Church for Men Florida has an interesting post today. The post is essentially a former gang member talking about how disappointed he was with the lack of true family in the church. He said his former gang was a better example of a family!

I've been attending the same church for almost 6 years. Not until recently have I felt like I truly belong; that I have people I can go to in times of strife and times of awesomeness. Some, if not a lot, of that is my fault. But why is it that a group of folks that claim to have accepted the greatest news the world, the gospel of Jesus Christ, can't act like a friend the way Christ describes a friend? In John 15:13 Christ says, "Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends." That's tough, I know, but are we even trying to come close?

The other question is are people filled with high expectations of community by the church itself? Would the church be better served to simplify its mission and the projection of that mission to the community? If a church advertises to everyone that you'll find family there, and then you don't, why emphasize that? That would be like me saying to a buddy of mine to come over this weekend to watch the NFL playoffs in peace and quiet, and when he gets here he sees the Wray family circus in it's first of three acts!

Like almost everyone of my thoughts that I bring up here, I don't have an answer. There are a lot of you out there that seem to be much more thorough with your thoughts. Anyone have any answers?

The resounding piece of scripture that keeps coming to me is in Matthew 22 when Jesus answers the Pharisees on what the greatest commandments are. He says to love your God with all of your hear, mind, soul and strength, which is the greatest commandment. BUT He also says to love your neighbor as you love yourself. How often can I say that I've done that? Not enough, that's fo' sho'!

It's a Major Award! I hope it's not FRA-GIL-AY!*

2009-01-15T11:49:00.003-05:00

Look here. I won something! YipppEEE!!!!

The winning is cool, and I really am looking forward to reading the book I won, but I really just want y'all to check Caryn's blog out. She has some awesome perspective on God and special needs kids without being heavy handed.

This post here crystalizes what I've wanted to tell folks for so long about what is cool and not cool to do in regards to families with special needs kids.

This post is an ode to her short bus riding son.

Caryn's blog is a true blessing (much more than my blog, I'm afraid). I admire her honesty, but most of all, her persistent praise to God.

Let me know what y'all think.

*If you don't get the A Christmas Story reference, go here for one of the funniest movie clips of all times!

It's Memorization Time Kids!!

2009-01-12T09:03:00.002-05:00

Hello there, internets. I've embarked on a pretty cool journey recently. I've taken to heart the memorization of God's word. It's simply a good thing to do.

"Wow! Really Earth shattering Chris," you might be saying, and you'd be right. I might as well also tell you to eat your vegetables and drink your milk, right? Well, make sure you do that too.

The problem that I've had in the past in trying to systematically memorize scripture is coming up with a system that keeps me on point. I've signed up for a weekly email over here. Tim Challies will send you an email every Sunday night. There is a shorter verse that you work on for a week. He also sends longer passages that take several weeks to memorize. I haven't tackled any of the longer passages yet, but baby steps, right?

The verse this week is James 1:22.

Let me know what you think. Also let me know if you have another way of memorizing scripture on a consistent basis.

My Testimony

2009-01-09T09:12:00.003-05:00

Romans 7:24-25a (English Standard Version)

24Wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death? 25Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord!

This is my testimony on how I came to truly know the saving grace of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

My early childhood was fairly uneventful. My mom and dad were parents that tried to do their best. Unfortunately, they divorced when I was six years old. However, they tried to provide as normal as an upbringing as they could. I lived with my mom after the divorce and visited my dad every other weekend and spent most of the summer with him.

I never knew God when I was younger. My mom, being a single mom, tried everything that she knew was "right" to give me a good upbringing. She took us to church for a short time, but it didn't stick. I'm not sure why. Maybe no one in the congregation showed the love of Christ to her, I'm not sure. However, it does make me wonder how many families come through the doors of our local churches that are lost in the shuffle? Families that end up leaving and giving up on that "religion thing."

My mom and I were very close. So when I decided to live with my dad during high school, it broke her heart. It was for the best, but it was one of the most difficult decisions a 13 year old would have to make.

Going through high school, I walked the straight and narrow. I never partied. Never really got into trouble. I truly drank 1 beer in high school, which is amazing considering my dad owned the concessions for a minor league ball team. Talk about access to alcohol! I truly praise God that I didn't have the desire to drink. Because seeing how things turned out in college, I would have been a raging alcoholic by the 10th grade!

I ended up attending the most prestigious and esteemed university in Virginia....That's right, I'm a Hokie. Starting a week in to freshman year, I let all those pent up years of not partying out, and let them out hard! There truly wasn't a drink, drug, or substance that I wouldn't try. I never heard or thought of God at school. Not once. Why not? You'd think that one of the largest universities in the state would have a vocal contingent of Christian students. Nope. Never had anyone ever ask me about the things of God. How many students today face that same scenario?

Towards the end of my stay at Virgina Tech, I took a semester off. I came back to Richmond and met the Earthly love of my life, Belinda.

Let me take a time here to state how important Belinda is in my life. She has opened my eyes so many times to what true faith is. She's stood beside me when no one, I mean no one, has dared be around. I love her dearly and am glad she puts up with my stuff.

So, Belinda and I start dating; we get pregnant; and I go back to school to finish up. From what I understand, that's not the typical order of doing things, but what are you gonna do?

B., our first daughter, is born. Belinda wanted to have her baptized. I had no idea what that meant or entailed, but I played along. I even professed my faith in front of the Methodist church in Highland Springs, without really meaning a word. However, that was the first place that I began to see the love of Christ in people through our pastor.

Two years later, we had K., our second daughter....life was good.

Two years later, we got pregnant again with C., my son. We had extra testing done on C.'s pregnancy. Things were fine.

One day the doctors asked Belinda to take an amniocentesis. She was dead set against it. I tell you the rest of this story to illustrate three points. One, how wretched and self centered of a sinner I was, and we all can be at times. Two, to show how big God's grace is. Three, to let you see how much poor Belinda puts up with. I essentially forced Belinda to take the test. I looked at her lying on the table and said, "Belinda, you need to take this test. If we have a special needs child, our marriage won't take it." God knew what was going on. The test came back fine. Think of that for a minute. God was completely in control. He knew the strife that a funky amnio test would cause. It came back clean.

Fast forward to present day. C. is here, no thanks to me, but to God alone. C. does have special needs, but my life would be so much less without him. He is my dude, and I love him. His special needs have also helped illuminate the passage in 2 Corinthians where Paul is talking about the thorn he has and God telling him that His grace is sufficient.

I've been baptized here at the Mount and thought I knew what being a Christian was about.

WRONG. Until I took Way of the Master, which I used to make fun of Belinda for taking, I never truly knew what it meant to have Christ in your life. What does that mean? Well, I'm not even sure. I know I was saved before recently, but I don't think I truly understand the awesomeness of Christ's sacrifice. I wasn't walking like the one leper of the ten that Jesus healed. I wasn't truly thankful for God's provision in Christ. I never truly understood that every person walking the face of this earth deserves eternal damnation. We are all sinners. But by God's grace through Christ's death on the cross and resurrection, we can come forth to a holy God without us having one spot or blemish, even if we've broken every one of God's laws. I am not a good person, but a person sanctified through Christ's holy sacrifice!

I recently chose 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 as my verse for 2009. I thought that whole process was sort of cheesy. Well, not so fast, Chris. A couple of weeks ago, a woman I've never seen at church tapped me on my arm during the collection of the offering and gave me this (show paper of verse now). When I went to talk to her after the service, she was gone. What she handed to me is a summation of the section of 1 Corinthians 13 that I chose as my verse for 2009. I guess God didn't think it was too cheesy a thing, huh?

Praise be to God. I am so glad to stand here today and to look each one of you in the eye and say that I love Jesus Christ. Now let me ask you, do you think you're a good person?

Some of the best child rearing advice I've read

2009-01-06T09:31:00.004-05:00

I know many of my friends, real and on the internets, have young kids. Here is a link to some of the best child rearing advice I've ever read.

Please read and enjoy.

God bless!

Verse for 2009

2008-12-31T11:28:00.002-05:00

This year has been tough for me. I've learned a lot about myself, good and bad.

I'm not going to make any resolutions. However, I'm claiming the following verse as a truth that I need imprinted on my heart, mind, and soul on so many different levels:

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (ESV)
4 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant 5or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful 6it( does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

I truly have so many blessings, I can't count them. Thank you God for everything you've done in my life. Thank you Lord for everything you've given me and my family. Thank you the most for your saving grace through your Son!

God bless, y'all!

Frustration

2008-12-29T16:22:00.002-05:00

ARRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!!!

I'm just so frustrated with myself recently.

I'm frustrated that I've been out of work for almost two months. I'm frustrated I'm still not the husband that I can and should be. I'm frustrated at my kids. I'm frustrated at the way I react to my kids.

I'm frustrated at the church not really having the gumption to get up off its butt and change the world. I'm frustrated that abberrant theology is making such an inroads with young believers through the "emerging church." I'm frustrated that I'm looking so hard at others when I should focus more on myself.

I'm frustrated that I want more out of the relationships I have now, but am not really giving any more than I have in the past.

So now what? Not really sure. Just needed to let it out.

Rick Warren Hypocrisy?

2008-12-29T07:57:00.002-05:00

This is a great political cartoon that shows the hypocrisy of the current Rick Warren uproar.

Penn Jillette shows that all atheists aren't pompous jerks

2008-12-26T11:41:00.002-05:00

In the below Youtube link, Penn from Penn & Teller responds to a fan handing him a bible after a show in Vegas:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7JHS8adO3hM

I like two things about Penn's comments. First, he doesn't use that faux intellectualism that atheists often use. They typically seem to think that using this smarter than thou mentality that it will shame the believer in to renouncing their faith.

Second, I like Penn's comments on proselytizing. He's right on the money here. If we as Christians believe that unbelievers are going to spend eternity in hell, then why wouldn't we tell everyone?

Jude 1:22-23 (English Standard Version)
22And have mercy on those who doubt; 23save others bysnatching them out of the fire; to others show mercy with fear, hating even the garment stained by the flesh.

Thoughts? Comments?

Local Food Blogger vs. Cwrizzle

2008-12-20T21:02:00.003-05:00

In the comment section of a post on Existential Punk, Bookstore Piet uses his typical bullying tactic to try and shut me up or change my mind. Interesting thing about truth. It makes people very uncomfortable. Notice how Bookstore insults me, insinuates I'm hiding numerous things that I'm overcompensating for, and even bring in my family. I stayed above that, but want everyone to take a look. Comment there or here. That's what makes blogging so much fun.

Thanks Bookstore! You've given me my blogging spark back.

The Meaning

2008-12-20T18:24:00.001-05:00

A great friend of mine gave me one of the best Christmas gifts ever. He gave me a card, gift card to Barnes and Noble, some gum (he musta been channeling his inner Grandpa there), and two cds he burned.

One of the cds had some awesome Bill Cosby routines.

The other cd had Linus laying out the Christmas story to Charlie Brown. It really chokes me up listening to it. I can't stop, though.

Praise God for the Christmas story. I thank God for Tim and his awesome gift.

Merry Christmas, everyone!

Yes, I heard this on Lite 98, BUT STILL!!!

2008-12-16T15:58:00.001-05:00

The version of this Christmas tune is really refreshing. It really got me in the Christmas spirit today when I've had a pretty crappy one.

God Bless! Merry Christmas!

P.S. I might actually post something substantive soon...stay tuned.

Doxology

2008-12-05T16:52:00.001-05:00

I've been singing this over and over recently. It's a reminder and a praise at the same time.

I pray that I can attribute the multitude of blessings around me to their true source.

Do You Consider Yourself A Good Person?

2008-11-07T09:07:00.002-05:00

Seriously...Do you consider yourself a good person?

Everyone I've asked this question says yes. Which is interesting. Are we good? To what standard are we judging ourselves when we call ourselves good? Is it by the list of good deeds that we do? Is it by what the world considers to be a good person? Is it because we haven't committed an egregious crime (grand theft, rape, murder)?

After having my eyes truly opened, I don't consider myself a good person.

Goodness is a subjective measurement. Let's take a look at our goodness versus one of the oldest measuring sticks ever to exist, the 10 commandments.

Have you ever lied? What do you call someone who tells lies? You got it, a liar.

Have you ever stolen anything, no matter how small or long ago? What do you call someone who has stolen something? Right again, a thief.

Have you ever used God's name in vain? That's called blasphemy. Basically you've used the name of your creator as a filth word.

So, just using 3 of the 10 commandments, I'm sure you can see where this is going. By your own admission, you're a lying, thieving, blasphemer at heart. I am too.

If, and this is a big IF, God were to judge you on the 10 commandments alone on the day of judgement, would he find you innocent or guilty?

If you're being honest, you'd see he'd have no choice but to find you guilty. "But I think God will forgive me if I say I'm sorry," you say. Interesting. Let's look at it this way. You've just been found guilty of some heinous crime. The judge is getting ready to sentence you to life in prison and asks if you have anything to say. "Well, judge, by the law I'm guilty, but I'm really sorry."

If the judge just overlooked your crime because you said you were sorry, he'd be a terrible judge. God is the perfect judge, so He certainly won't overlook your transgressions against His perfect Law.

So...If God found you guilty based on the 10 Commandments alone, would you go to Heaven or Hell when you die? God's Word says that liars, thieves, and blasphemers will never see the Kingdom of God.

Now, given that you see that based on ourselves, we deserve nothing but the fires of hell, ask yourself this question...Does that concern you?

God doesn't want to send anyone to hell, but he must based on his Law. HOWEVER, do you know what God did for everyone so that you don't have to spend eternity in hell but actually in His presence?

God sent his only son, Jesus, to Earth in human form. He sent Jesus to Earth to bear all the sin of the world and take God's wrath for our sin by dying a terrible, excrutiating death on the cross.

Christ Himself said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."

What does that mean? It means that we must accept God's sacrifice. We must repent from our sins (actually turn away from our sin) and have faith in Jesus as our Savior. This isn't as easy as believing in Christ. Demons believe in Him and shudder. We must actively reject our sins and fully have faith in Christ's promise of salvation.

Why do I write all of this? Well, it's pretty simple. God told us to tell others of His plan of salvation. Also, I have several people that read this blog that I care deeply about. I want to make sure that they know the only way to heaven.

If you've read this far, thanks. Please feel free to comment.

Brian the Dragon

2008-10-30T12:39:00.002-04:00

"I'd really like a drink," said Belinda when she was sitting down to do some work for her online corp. accounting class.

Knowing that Belinda doesn't really drink alcohol, I knew that was my cue to get up off the couch and go get her a Diet Dr. Pepper. No problem. I was thirsty too.

As I stepped outside, I heard a voice shout out, "Don't get freaked out man! I'm just over here trying to figure out how I'm gonna walk around in my dragon costume next weekend."

"Say what?!?"

"I said, 'I'm just over here trying to figure out hos I'm gonna walk around in my dragon costume next weekend.'"

By this time my eyes had adjusted to the darkness and I could see a figure sitting at one of the picnic tables across the street in the park.

"Cool," I said. I drove off to CVS to get me and Belinda a drink.

On the way, I felt the tapping on my skull from God. He said something like, "You know, Chris, it would be cool to get that guy in the park a drink too. Would be a great opportunity to tell him about Christ."

Sure. No problem God. I'll get a drink for a guy I don't know who's out in a park in the pitch black worrying about some dragon costume. Sounds completely normal.

Well, I ended up getting him a drink.

The conversation went many places. Brian, the dragon guy, new some things about the Lord. He also had some out of left field ideas about the Bible, but that may have been the Natty Lite talking.

My overwhelming urge to tell others about the only way to avoid hell through Christ has put me in some interesting places and conversations. Brian ranks up there as one of the most colorful, thus far. I can only pray that I shed some light for him on how he can avoid the terrible plight of those that don't know Christ as their savior when they die.

God bless!

Let's Hear It for Jerry

2008-10-22T16:32:00.003-04:00

So I work close to Chesterfield Towne Center. I've been going to the mall at lunch with the intent to try to witness using the Way of the Master method of evangelism.

Let's just say that I've not been very successful (essentially I've been a big freakin' chicken)

Today I promised myself that it would be a different story.

So in I go. I walk around the mall for about 10 minutes. Nothing really seems to be presenting itself as opportunity to strike up a conversation. I pass by a mall worker who's emptying trash cans and say to myself, "I should talk to that guy. Nah. I don't wanna bother him while he's working. Well, maybe if he decides to take a break and sit down." I continue to walk for about 5 minutes. When I turn back in the direction of the mall worker, guess what! You got it...he's sitting down on one of the benches in the mall!

*TAP* *TAP* *TAP*

God says, "What was that you were saying Chris? You gonna talk to him? I mean he is sitting down, after all."

"Ok. Let me just walk by one more time"

I begin repeating Philippians 4:13. "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."

So I sit down. I ask Jerry, that's his name come to find out, if he's gotten one of the billion dollar bills. He says nope. I go on to witness to him using the Law to convict his heart and then bringing on the Gospel.

Much of it is still a blur. We chatted for a good 10 minutes. Jerry blessed me incredibly through this encounter. I hope I've helped him as well through Christ.

God bless you Jerry.

Where is the grace in today's world?

2008-10-21T10:11:00.002-04:00

I look around and see so little grace. So little grace in today's political landscape. So little grace when it comes to dealing with people in the office. So little grace in dealing with friends. So little grace in dealing with my kids. So little grace in dealing with my wife.

I heard an AWESOME version of "Amazing Grace" on the way in to work today. Nothing original, but still as powerful as ever. Please take the time to read the full lyrics below. What an awesome, awesome thing my Lord did for me, you, everyone.

Amazing Grace Lyrics
John Newton (1725-1807)

Stanza 6 anon.

Amazing Grace,
how sweet the sound,
That saved a wretch like me.I once was lost but now am found,
Was blind, but now I see.

T'was Grace that taught my heart to fear.
And Grace, my fears relieved.
How precious did that Grace appear
The hour I first believed.
Through many dangers, toils and snaresI have already come;
'Tis Grace that brought me safe thus far
and Grace will lead me home.

The Lord has promised good to me.
His word my hope secures.
He will my shield and portion be,
As long as life endures.

Yea, when this flesh and heart shall fail,
And mortal life shall cease,
I shall possess within the veil,
A life of joy and peace.

When we've been here ten thousand years
Bright shining as the sun.
We've no less days to sing God's praise
Than when we've first begun.
Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound,
That saved a wretch like me.
I once was lost but now am found,
Was blind, but now I see.

McCain is a Nazi

2008-10-20T15:11:00.002-04:00

According to the newest episode of The Family Guy, Nazis would have voted for the McCain-Palin ticket.

This type of crap is ridiculous. Whether you hate a candidate with all of what you hold dear, to equate them to Nazis in the name of humor is stupid. And before you say, "Oh Chris, get a grip," remember that McFarlane, the creator of The Family Guy is a staunch supporter of Obama.

And for anyone that says, well I thought it was funny, think about what's really being said here. McCain, a Vietnam veteran, is being equated to a political group that single handedly was responsible for the extermination of millions of Jews.

Pathetic. And to think that if anyone mentions anything negative about Obama, you're nonchalantly lumped in as a racist. Doesn't seem to be fair does it?

Well, it doesn't matter. Neither of the candidates will be able to accomplish much of what they're saying they will. Those that will worship their political celebrities will continue to do so. I guess in that crazed state of mind, they can then see how someone would on a national television program call someone a Nazi. That makes perfect sense.

Great Concert This Weekend

2008-10-17T09:38:00.002-04:00

You should go to this. You'll be a better person this weekend. Plus if you see a guy looking like Yukon Cornelius, say, "Hey!" That will be me.

Indian Christians In Trouble as Well

2008-10-16T11:01:00.002-04:00

I wrote last time about Americans not really having any ground to stand on when complaining about being "persecuted" for their faith in Christ.

Here's another example:
http://www.newsweek.com/id/164081

By the way, for the commenter (usually anonymous) that will read this post and then blather on about the Crusades, please don't waste the electrons. In case you can't tell, I'm commenting on how being a Christian in America is easy as pie. This is not a commentary on the wrongs done by the "Church". But to stave this off, A BUNCH of bad stuff has been done in God's name before, even in the time of Christ. That's why Christ went on about not being like the Pharisees.

Thanks.

Don't Whine If You're a Christian in America

2008-10-13T11:19:00.002-04:00

If you haven't noticed, I've really been convicted lately about sharing the gospel of Christ to others face to face. I hear people say that they're too scared to do so. Well, I understand being scared. I'm really scared when I share with someone, but it's just something you pray about and get over.

I also here Christians in America complain about the persecution that we're under because of the media, gays, liberals, etc. Really? I mean, really? You feel we're persecuted? Below is a link from a main stream media source (not some AFR supported megaphone) that shows what true persecution is all about:

http://www.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/meast/10/13/iraq.main/index.html .

People are dying because of their professed belief in Christ. People are forced to live in make shift tents because of their belief in the one true Lord.

Wake up America! We've got it good. Now go tell someone the Good News.

The 'Skins are 4-1

2008-10-06T20:44:00.002-04:00

Is this for real? Is this some kind of joke? I'd say Clinton Portis's 145 yards on the ground against the league's best run defense says it's as real as it's gonna get here on Earth!

Hail to the Redskins! Hail Victory, indeed!

ASBO Jesus

2008-10-03T13:18:00.002-04:00

WOW! ASBO Jesus is right on the money with this one!

I love you man...

2008-10-01T20:48:00.002-04:00

Please read this. I'm in this group that td talks about. I love these guys.

I'd also recommend you add this blog to your reader feed. This dude can freakin' lay it out!

As you were...

Wow! Coach Z is Goin' Old School

2008-10-01T20:32:00.001-04:00

If this doesn't make you proud to be a 'Skins fan, well...I don't know what I'd say to you.

Hail to the Redskins! Bring on Philly!

Urrgent Help Neaded

2008-09-23T15:29:00.003-04:00

Below is the text of an email I just received. Do you think I should help? Looks like I won't have much choice honestly...

Dear American:
I need too ask you to support and urgent secret business relationship with atransfer of funds of great magnitudes.I am Ministry of the Treasury of the Republic of America. My country has hadcrisis that is caused the need of large transfer for funds of 800 billiondollars US. If you would assist me in this transfer, it would be mostprofitable to yours.I am workings with Mr. Phil Gram, lobbyist for UBS, who will be myreplacement as Ministry of the Treasury in January. As a Senater, you mayknown him as the leader of the American bankings deregulation movement in the1990s. This transactin is 100% safe.This is a matter of great urgencies. We need a blank check. We need the fundsas quickly as possible. We cannot directly to transfer these funds in the namesof our close friends because constantl under surveillance. My familylawyer advised me that I should look for a reliable and trustworthy personwho will act as a next of kin so the funds can be transfered.Please reply with all your banks account, IRA and colleges funds accountsnumberrs and those of your childrens and grandchildrens towallstreetbailout@treasury.gov so that we may transfer your comisssion forthis transaction. After I receive these informations, I will respond withdetaild informations about safeguard will be used to protects thefunds.
Yours Faithfully Minister of Treasury Paulson

Why the modern church has gotten it wrong OR why you should wear your seatbelt.

2008-09-18T08:23:00.003-04:00

The message of the gospel has been diluted by the modern church. We as Christians lure people in to “trusting” Jesus by promising them love, joy, peace, etc. without any reference to the law.
The law needs to referenced first to show how really lost we are. That’s gonna hurt people’s feelings. Christ did this with the young, rich ruler. After people see a need for a savior, then they will be overjoyed that their is said savior.

Take a seatbelt, for example. Let’s say that it was certain you were going to get in to a deadly car crash on your way to the store today. If I told you to wear your seatbelt because it’s comfortable and will make your ride in the car more enjoyable, you’d put it on but quickly realize that wasn’t true and take it off, endangering yourself. However, if I told you that it is certain you would perish in a horrifying crash, and the only way to save yourself is to put on your seatbelt, then you’d put it on and be happy that you did.

We as Christians certainly need to emphasize the joy that one gets by knowing that you're saved from the horrors of hell, BUT need to be careful not to essentially mislead folks in to trusting Christ in order to achive some sort of life magic. Christ promises that persecution will follow those that claim to follow him. That doesn't sound like the modern gospel, probably because it's not.

The Bible is a complete set of books. Neglecting the law when explaining Christ's sacrifice because it's uncomfortable just doesn't make good sense. There's no need for a cure, if you don't know you're sick. The ten commandments is a simple way to show that not one of us is good enough to make the grade, if you will, without Christ's sacfice.

I know this may make some uncomfortable, but it's the truth. Comment if you will, I appreciate everyone who reads this blog (all 5 of you!).

Smoky Roadhouses Where They Play Monopoly and Stuff

2008-09-15T12:10:00.002-04:00

I've been trying to have my fam sit down to dinner as much as possible. My family did this all the time when I grew up, and great conversations usually ensued. When I was a kid, we actually had to get excused before we left the table. I've tried to start that at home, but it's not working so well.

ANYWAY...last night the topic of conversation turned to board games. My wife and I were talking about how they recently changed some of the characters from Clue. B. then pipes in with a classic riff. She said, "Dad. Did you know that there are smoky roadhouses in big cities where they play poker and Monopoly and stuff? Sometimes it gets really mean when people lose."

My wife and I lost it. How funny is that? Where in the world does B. know about smoky roadhouses from? Where did she get the idea that they play Monopoly at said roadhouses? And what in the world are these guys fighting over? Did someone not get all the money they thought they should from landing on free parking? Did someone short someone $200 when they passed go?

I guess B. only knows!

Apologetics Is Really Cool

2008-08-27T20:00:00.002-04:00

Yeah, yeah...you probably think going through proofs of your faith is a boring, mental exercise. I couldn't agree less.

I've really been forced to dig deep recently into my view of Christianity, as I've been discussing with a close friend at work his Christadelphian views. A lot of folks call the Christadelphians a cult. I don't go that far as I don't see the point. I don't believe their viewpoint is truly biblical. They believe it is.

Here's a really neat apologetics website. Check it out if you have a sec and you enjoy mental gymnastics.

I Want a Beard for My Birthday

2008-08-25T15:19:00.004-04:00

Sometimes C.'s "limitations" because of his hydrocephalus are really frustrating, BUT usually his uniquessnes shines through and it can result in hilarity.

For some reason, C. has an infatuation with anything related to a beard. You read that right, a beard. Whenever he sees my dad, which is about every 6 months, one of his first questions to Granpa is, "Why you have that beard on?"

Whenever I don't shave over the weekend, which is quite regularly, he says, "Why you growing a beard?" and laughs histerically.

Last night topped the beard covered cake. He just looked directly at Belinda and said, "For my birfday...I want a beard. It will go here and here" pointing to where the beard must show up on his face. What a weird, but funny, thing to blurt out.

I most definitely will be purchasing him something similar to the picture above in October. Hope he likes it. Maybe I'll throw in the monocle to make him look even more dignified.

Finally Feeding Myself Again

2008-08-25T13:12:00.002-04:00

I'm a believer in Christ. I don't use follower right there as I haven't done much following recently. I know all of the things that good "Christian soldiers" are supposed to do, but I just can't seem to force myself to do them recently.

However, I've been on a road recently that has lead me back to the source of all hope for true disciples, the Bible. I go pretty regularly to a group of guys that sit around and talk with one another, pray for one another, and try to build each other up in the name of Christ. Chris, who attends the group, suggested we started reading some sort of book together recently. Like guys tend to do, we didn't come up with a decision on what to read. We did look at Scripture and felt that was a great place to start, but no plan was put in place.

I also have been discussing faith with a coworker of mine that claims himself as a Christadelphian. Some of this denomination's views are a little off the beaten path when related to what the Word of God says. My friend at work and I haven't really debated things but discussed things in depth, using Scripture as our reference point. Really researching why I believe the things I believe in Scripture has been awesome!

Finally, I overheard some folks talking at the church picnic about truly listening to God through reading His word. Plain and simple, yet true. God has spoken to us, but it's our job to actively listen.

So I've started earnestly reading the Word again. It's been an adventure that I'm glad I finally picked back up. I'm not gonna say it's all been an activity that I give my whole attention to, but I do it no matter what, for a whole week now (I know, Iknow...a whole 7 days). Try it out. Here's the reading plan I've been using. I like this reading plan, as it keeps you in one book at a time, which allows you to really stitch the whole story together.

Cool representation of The Sermon on the Mount

2008-08-20T13:40:00.000-04:00

Cool view of Christ's Sermon on the Mount taken from Matthew. Enjoy

I Cried At Work Today

2008-07-28T12:16:00.003-04:00

This picture is a year old, but it helps you see the beauty of my family. B., who's my daughter on the left of the picture, went off to sleep away camp today.

It's a church sponsored camp and I know she'll be safe and have a blast.

I was talking to my wife about her sending B. some mail, and "it" just overwhelmed me. I didn't bawl, just a few tears fell. I caught the tears before I was openly accused by my podmates of being the softy that I really am. It's hard to explain to someone that doesn't have kids what "it" is, but I'll try...

"It" is simultaneously looking at your kid and realizing all at the same time how fast they're growing, how short of time you have left, how cool they're turning out, and how much you're concerned about their future.

B. has one of the sweetest hearts imaginable. I'm so fortunate and blessed to have her in my life.

I know you won't read this B., but I pray you catch the vibe of this message and have caught it on a regular basis since you've been born. Your mom and I love you so very much. We're very proud of you. Concentrate on having a great time at camp and hope that Daddy isn't this much of a mess every day at work. I have a manly image to uphold for goodness' sake!

Warning...This Post Contains Psychological Honesty Not Nudity as Dr. Savage Promises

2008-07-23T14:14:00.003-04:00

As I've stated before, I'm of the view that words do matter and as culture we've gotten more and more coarse with little regard for what we say. Entertainers, talk show hosts, "news"casters, bloggers, etc. seem to speak/write first think later, if ever.

If you haven't been hiding under a rock, you've heard about Michael Savage's recent assertion that 99% of autistic children are, "a brat who hasn’t been told to cut the act out." He also calls this "act" that autistic children put on acting like a "moron" and "idiot."

I know that Savage's primary goal is to shock and awe his listening base as much as he can so they'll tune in so as not to miss his newest word of wisdom. I also know that his speech and speech like it is protected in our country, and I'm glad it is.

However, is this type of speech adding anything to the public dialogue? Are you really walking away from listening to Savage's rant with something edifying or informative? Nope and nope.

The fact that so many of us today say that they believe someone because they claim to be a liberal or a conservative is pathetic. Why have so many of us become sheep? Where will this lead our country?

Words are powerful things that can either build up or tear down...which do you chose and why?

Who Woulda Thought?

2008-07-16T12:16:00.002-04:00

It's funny how people really think they know you by the brief snapshots provided by your blog. Give your readers a glimpse into how you feel about something or ask a question that gets people thinkin and watch out. See here for a glimpse into some aggressive comments by one of our beloved RVA (emphasis on the RVA) food bloggers. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not wilting underneath the bright light of criticism, but I'm surprised by someone who's never met me comes on my blog and basically assaults my core belief system by throwing me in with a bunch of jerks.

Anyway, NO ONE is a black and white caricature. Case in point, I an "evil hearted, head in the sand, fundamentalist, Bible-beating, Christian" is volunteering tonight with HeadCount at the Umphrey's McGee/STS9 show to help get people registered to vote. And no Foodie, it's not an opportunity for me to spread my evil way of thinkin to others as it's a completely not a political organization.

This blogging thing makes us all do what we do anyways as far as making instant character judgements. It's just interesting when those judgements are left behind permanently in the electron disturbing form of a comment.

Enough already!

2008-07-15T12:42:00.002-04:00

A friend of mine at work today let loose with one of their "Jesus F-in Christ on a G-D cross" blasts. I've talk to this person before about how I don't appreciate this type of outburst and this person understands and does their best to control it.

So what is the point of this post? First and foremost, IT'S NOT DESIGNED TO CONDEMN MY COWORKER! I just want to examine using tbe Lord's name in vain, which I unfortunately do on occasion, and why it's so universally accepted.

Why and how has our country as a whole moved to accepting using the name of Christ as a throw away curse? I find it interesting on several levels. One, many folks have made a bunch of noise recently (Obama I'm looking directly at you and most of your supporters) about the good ol' US of A not being a Christian nation. If that's the case, how do you account for the prevalence of the Christian culture and terms that we use, especially when cursing?

Two, what do we think we're going to accomplish by bringing up the Lord's name when we're trying to condemn something strongly (which is what you're consciously or subconsciously doing when cursing)? Is it because we think that we'll give an extra amount of gravitas to our exhortation? Is it because the person doesn't believe in God, and if that is the case, why would we even bring His name up in a curse? Finally, and this is pointed directly at me, why do believers dare to drag down Christ's name when He gave everything up for us to be able to to come to Him and the Father when we're done with our Earthly stay?

I don't really have any answers...just wanted to throw these out there to see if anyone else does. Comment away!

Funniest Kid Quote Ever

2008-07-13T16:35:00.000-04:00

While in the swimming pool this weekend, C. looks at me while I'm holding him and says, "Dad, your fur is all wet."

Colonial Heights Debacle Starts

2008-07-11T09:21:00.002-04:00

I've written before about Colonial Heights buying the old Colonial Heights Baptist Church. This situation has turned out like just like I projected.

In the RTD today, there is an article about how the "informed" citizenry stopped the demolition of the old church.

Don't get me wrong, I'm all for citizens getting involved and stopping things they think are wrong. But most of the arguments for keeping the building is in the name of history. What the heck? Who cares? It's an old church. The sanctuary was remodeled long ago, so there is no significance.

My concern here is that the citizenry of Colonial Heights will now have to pay to sustain the property. This is a huge building. That type of upkeep won't be cheap. Plus, the city council has stated they won't do anything until, get this, next July! Also, according to today's RTD article the city has had the property appraised at $4 million which is about what the city paid for it. So add in the cost of taking care of this building for a year and what do you have? A LOSS.

Poor managment by the city. Stupid ideas by the citizenry. This is shaping up to be quite a mess.

Met a Local Blogger and We Could Have Been Killed

2008-07-10T10:03:00.002-04:00

Chris from Awaken Me and I have tried for weeks to meet up. He wrote about a men's accountability group that he and a couple of fellas from his church started that I was really interested in. We've been going back and forth on when and where to meet. Last night, Chris came to a community cookout/party our church was having.

It was great to meet him. He's the first area blogger I met in person. I thought it would be awkward, but it couldn't have been anymore natural. Chris seems to be a great guy and is easy to talk to.

Chris stayed for several hours at our shindig. The event was winding down, and that's when the tornado happened. That's right, the tornado.

It actually sounds a little more exciting than it was. From what we were told, a tornado touched down in Petersburg. Due to our emergency plan at the church (I didn't know we even had one), we were all required to move to the sanctuary. The tornado warning was lifted about 10 mins later. So we all got to leave and go home.

I'm going to the mens accountability group tonight. From what Chris says, this could be more exciting than a tornado touching down near your town. Here's to hoping I can be open enough to share and listen to others with no preconceived notions.

Does This Make Me Gay?

2008-06-27T14:17:00.001-04:00

So, uhhhh....I thought this was one of the best examples of the power of dance. You must release the power of dance. Release it I say!!!! What are you still doing sitting there? GO!!! RELEASE!!!!

Obama better run from this fight

2008-06-24T08:24:00.002-04:00

I admit that I've been swayed by several of the persuasive points Sen. Obama has made throughout his campaign. I also admit that I don't like the way that James Dobson of Focus on the Family usually presents his political points. However, this article should give great concern to Obama, his campaign, and his followers.

Obama, in the remarks listed in the article, is clearly wrong in his theological assertions. Dobson is not someone to mess with when it comes to that.

As a Christian first, when I look at this flawed interpretation of the Bible, I have a hard time convincing myself to vote for him.

Discuss. Comment.

Postcrossing

2008-06-09T15:00:00.002-04:00

Cool idea I came across on metafilter today:
www.postcrossing.com

The first post card I'm sending is going to Finland.

So...How Many Times Have You Called Someone a Retard?

2008-06-06T13:38:00.002-04:00

I've done it so many times I can't count.

Let me be clear, this isn't a post to condemn. It's meant to be a post to make you stop just for a sec and think about the weight your words have. My son, pictured above, is getting ready to enter Kindergarten in a few short months. How long will it be before the kids aren't as nice to him as they are now? How long before he's called a retard behind his back or to his face all because he walks with crutches and is different than his peers?

The Special Olympics of Virginia kicks off their summer games tonight. They also have an awesome iniative that is creating awareness about the "R" Word.

Please click here to give to go to my personalize Special Olympics donation page. I've committed to raising $100 for them. Help me out here Internets...please.

Feel free to also leave comments on your thoughts about the use of "retard" and whether you think it's offensive.

OUCH!!!!!!!

2008-05-20T11:42:00.002-04:00

Here's a story of a photographer getting stabbed by a javelin at a HS track meet. Damn! That is nasty. Stuff like this makes me really squeamish!

As big of a Redskins fan that I am, I've never seen the footage of Joey T. getting his leg dismantled on national tv. Don't plan on seeing it either.

The Lord Gives and the Lord Takes Away

2008-05-19T12:24:00.002-04:00

As I mentioned in my previous post, the senior pastor of my church is leaving. I'm really conflicted on how I feel about it, which is probably the normal way to feel.

When we started visiting Mount Pleasant, I'd never heard a preacher preach like Jeff Ginn does. He brings the Word strong to the table but without the condemnation that many feel Southern Baptists often bring. Jeff is leaving to head up the Southern Baptist Conservatives of Virgnia.

I'm glad for Pastor Jeff. He's the perfect guy to help lead our denomination across the state. He's also, I feel, the perfect guy to lead Mount Pleasant. I know the Lord will provide someone else to lead our congregation, I just can't help but feel a little lost right now. Within 12 months, our children's pastor, music pastor, and now senior pastor has left our church.

Pastor Jeff helped our church grow exponentially. He's a good man. I wish him the best, but my family will miss him greatly.

For those that are so inclined, pray for the Mount Pleasant family

Weird Weekend

2008-05-18T18:33:00.004-04:00

I started the weekend on Friday by having an "argument" about homosexuality with local blogger Bookstore Piet on the Cats Working blog in the comments section. Like most blogging arguments, no minds were changed, but we ended as blogging buddies. Feel free to let me know how you feel that my arguments were right on the money and that I was completely right in my assesement of all the issues presented (insert self-depricating, sarcastic tone here per below comment).

Saturday was PACKED with family stuff. B. and K. had their last soccer games of the season. C. had a b-day party to go to. The party was at the Colonial Heights bowling alley. What was interesting was C. actually bowling. With his mobility issues, C. eventually had to sit down while we rolled the ball together. The bowling alley shut off the lanes after an hour without telling anyone, because gosh darnit we'd been bowling for an hour. Nevermind there was no one else in the place.

Today we had the bombshell dropped on us by our Senior Pastor at church that he's leaving to head up the Southern Virginia Baptist Convention. Good for him, bad for us. Even with all the talk of God leading him to do this, I can't help but feel abandoned. Pastor Jeff is a great teacher and I'll miss him greatly.

Hope your weekend was good. I'm going to finish watching the Indiana Jones marathon on Sci-fi channel with my kids.

BAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH!!!!

2008-05-15T14:40:00.002-04:00

I'm feeling pretty crappy today. It's pretty much all brought on by myself. Work, family, money, all of it seems to be going wrong recently...again brought on mostly by me.

I just wish this veil of a funk would lift. I'm trying hard to help it leave me, but it won't.

I want a good word from somewhere, but can't seem to find it. Funny thing is that the good word I'm looking for is right in front of me, but I'm such a sourpuss that I can't see it.

AAAARRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!

Happy Moth's Day

2008-05-11T13:57:00.003-04:00

To all the moths out there, have a happy day from my K. Isn't it awesome to look back on the cards our kids give us. Belinda thinks this is the funniest yet sweetest card K. has ever given her.

I love it too.

Funniest Online Ad Ever

2008-04-25T14:23:00.002-04:00

This is real, I promise. Look at the kid's sign! Too damn funny!

This Could Spell Trouble For My Recreation Budget

2008-04-25T11:14:00.002-04:00

Dogwood Trace Golf Course opened officially yesterday to rave reviews. I'm sure my wife will be thrilled to read this.

For those that play the maddening yet addicting game of golf, here's two bits of wisdom for you. Jamie Fagan, the Pro and GM at the new course, used to be the PGA Pro at Golf Galaxy. I took a lesson from him when I first picked up the game. He's a super nice guy and a really good teacher. I'm glad he's been given this opportunity and I would recommend him to anyone that needs some lessons.

Paul Verhoeven is a turd Part II

2008-04-24T09:10:00.002-04:00

In my post yesterday, I alerted everyone to the article on FOXnews.com about Paul Verhoeven (the BRILLIANT mind that brought us 'Basic Instinct', 'Showgirls', and 'Starship Troopers' to name of few) has written a book that makes some ridiculous and offensive claims about Jesus Christ. One of Vehoeven's claims, that the article mentions, is that Jesus was conceived due to the fact that Mary was raped by a Roman soldier.

According to the article, Verhoeven has been actively involved with the Jesus Seminar. Please take time to read up on that group and make your own conclusion on their work.

After a lot of thought, I've decided not really to rant as much as I planned. I can't convince anyone to believe or not believe in the divinity of Christ. I can tell you that while I often question parts of the Bible, my faith in Christ is solid.

Below is a quote, courtesy of Wikipedia, of C.S. Lewis from his book Mere Christianity:

Christian apologist C. S. Lewis popularised this argument in a 1943 BBC radio broadcast which later formed the basis of his book Mere Christianity.
"I am trying here to prevent anyone saying the really foolish thing that people often say about Him: I’m ready to accept Jesus as a great moral teacher, but I don’t accept his claim to be God. That is the one thing we must not say. A man who was merely a man and said the sort of things Jesus said would not be a great moral teacher. He would either be a lunatic — on the level with the man who says he is a poached egg — or else he would be the Devil of Hell. You must make your choice. Either this man was, and is, the Son of God, or else a madman or something worse. You can shut him up for a fool, you can spit at him and kill him as a demon or you can fall at his feet and call him Lord and God, but let us not come with any patronising nonsense about his being a great human teacher. He has not left that open to us. He did not intend to. ... Now it seems to me obvious that He was neither a lunatic nor a fiend: and consequently, however strange or terrifying or unlikely it may seem, I have to accept the view that He was and is God." [4]

I think this is a great argument for the divinity of Christ.

Thoughts anyone?

You mean the guy who brought us "Basic Instinct" is a turd?

2008-04-23T11:53:00.002-04:00

I will post more on this later tonight, but I want to let the blood to stop shooting from my eyes... Until then, read this.

My DNA for all to view...Personal DNA that is

2008-04-16T14:09:00.000-04:00

My personalDNA Report

Here I am...interesting, huh?

Today...

2008-04-16T09:17:00.002-04:00

...we're all Hokies!

God bless the Hokie Nation!

MSNBC.com now attacking teen stars for doing the right thing

2008-04-14T13:11:00.002-04:00

If you read my blog, you know I have three kids. My two oldest are girls. They both love the Jonas Brothers and Miley Cyrus.

MSNBC.com has an article today slamming Cyrus and the Jo Bros for talking about their chastity vow. Here's the article. We all know the slant of MSNBC. I'm not gonna get in to that here.

The thing that really gets me is that the "author" justifies this critical article by stating that others have claimed chastity till marriage before and failed. Great reasoning. Nothing like just not doing the right thing because you know it's hard and people have tried before and couldn't do it.

I'm tired of media outlets attacking purity and traditional values as things that are foreign to this country.

Plus, I'm also tired of people using generalities about performers like Cyrus and saying she's a "just half naked virgins writhing" around. Believe me when I say that I've seen A LOT of Miley Cyrus/Hannah Montanna. I've never seen her do anything close to half naked writhing.

I guess it's your typical attack article aimed at people that are popular and *GASP* actually good role models.

READ THIS NOW

2008-04-04T16:44:00.001-04:00

From my friend at Awaken Me, I was turned on to this parable. Click here. Read. Think. Comment. I will add more later.

If a Fatal Error Can Be Funny, Then Here's One For You

2008-03-27T11:21:00.003-04:00

Whilst taking a break from my daily workload, I tried to log on to the great Richmond blog aggregator, RVABlogs.

I got this error:
Fatal error: Undefined class name 'circumcision' in /home/rvablogs/public_html/wp-content/themes/RVABlogs3/stuff.php on line 16

Uhhhh...say what?

Praise the Lord and Have Some Kickin' Mac N' Cheese

2008-03-23T19:10:00.003-04:00

Today's Easter. My Lord arose from the dead about 2000 years ago after dying for everyone's sins. If you don't know Jesus as Christ, please find a church or a friend that can tell you His story and save your life in the same breath.
He is not here; he has risen! - Luke 24:6

We had some AWESOME Mac N' Cheese tonight that I saw on the Food Network. Read the below recipe, make some, eat it, and enjoy. My Easter gift to the Internets.

Macaroni and Cheese
Recipe courtesy The Neelys

6 tablespoons butter
1/2 cup all-purpose flour
4 cups milk, warm
1 teaspoon dry mustard
1/4 teaspoon freshly grated nutmeg
1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper
Dash salt and freshly ground black pepper
Dash hot sauce
Dash Worcestershire sauce
3 cups shredded Cheddar
1 pound cavatappi pasta, cooked al dente
1 cup crushed potato chips
5 slices cooked bacon, crumbled
1/2 cup freshly grated Parmesan, for topping

Heat oven to 350 degrees F.

Melt 6 tablespoons butter in a large saucepot over medium heat. Add flour and cook, stirring, for 1 minute. Whisk in the warmed milk and bring to a boil, continue to whisk constantly. The mixture will thicken as the heat increases. Continue to stir while adding the dry mustard, nutmeg, cayenne, salt, pepper, hot sauce and Worcestershire. Stir in the 3 cups of Cheddar until it melts.
Pour the cheese sauce over the noodles and add to a 3 quart casserole dish.
Sprinkle the chips, bacon and Parmesan on top and bake for 35 minutes.

Insightful Political Commentary By None Other Than DMX

2008-03-19T10:54:00.002-04:00

I had this forwarded to me by a co-worker. DMX really knows how to read the political landscape. The funny, or sad, thing is that these are real comments.

Come Monday, I can have all the breadsticks I want!

2008-03-13T14:58:00.003-04:00

Look it. More good news from Colonial Heights. Unlimited salad and breadsticks. What more could you ask for?

Hey Richmond! Maybe you could learn somethin' here...

2008-03-12T10:27:00.002-04:00

With Doug Wilder calling for peace with the city council, maybe the fine capitol city leaders could look to the city I call home, Colonial Heights, for an example on how to work together.

Just a thought. Have a great day!

My Hand Is Crippled....

2008-02-28T14:45:00.003-05:00

....by Guitar Hero III for the Wii. This is the first incarnation of GH I've played and I can easily say it's the most addictive game I've ever played. It really does cripple your hand, however.

Tomorrow and Friday...Free Breakfast for All

2008-02-27T13:52:00.003-05:00

To celebrate leap year, or to make you sample their stuff, McD's is giving away a McSkillet burrito to all who buy a large drink.

Sounds like a great deal. Just thought I'd pass this on to my blogging peeps.

3 Things I Really Like About My Church

2008-02-26T10:22:00.002-05:00

As I said in my last post (but I belive it bears repeating) the internets have seen little of me recently. I just sorta lost my mojo for posting.

Thanks to Chris at Awaken Me, I've been tagged to list 3 things I really like about my church. This is a big post to really jump back in the blogging water, but I believe I'm up to the task. I guess you guys will be the judges.

Without further ado, here are the 3 things I really like about our church (Mount Pleasant Baptist Church in Colonial Heights):

1 . Our children's ministry- While our children's ministry is in a state of flux with the loss of our children's pastor, I know that our church really loves our kids and does everything it can to show them the love of Christ. There are extensive activities that our kids can and do get involved in. Kids' choir and AWANA are ongoing activites that a bunch of MPBC kids go to weekly. One of the coolest things about our children's ministry is the abundance of stuff for kids during the summer. Terrific Tuesdays, VBS, and Centri-Kid sleepover camp are just a few of the awesome things that our kids get to be involved in.

2. Our music- I love music. It is truly the thing that stirs my soul the most. That being said, I don't like churches that think they can sing/play music when they can't. I know that's not a loving attitude, but we all have weaknesses. Mount Pleasant's "Cutting Edge Band" does a great job, overall. Our piano player and drummer are some specific strong points to our morning worship service. We also have an organ/keyboardist that is white and blind but if you closed your eyes you'd swear you were listening to a mix of Stevie Wonder and Gregg Allman, no joke. Finally, our morning worship leader really has a heart for the Lord and that shows in how he puts our 9:30 worship music together.

3. Our pastor- Mount Pleasant is a large church. I felt when we started attending MPBC that we'd see a senior pastor that got up on Sunday morning, preached his sermon, and that would be it. Pastor Jeff Ginn couldn't be further from that example. He goes out of his way to learn EVERYONE'S name, which is tough for a church that has three Sunday services with total attendance averaging right around 1000. Pastor Jeff also has a huge heart for the lost folks of our town, state, country, and world. Finally, Jeff really brings the Word of God to us every week but does it in a way that you truly connect with. I know that when I struggle with my faith, Jeff would listen to my struggle and use his vast knowledge of the Word to point me back on the path without making me feel stupid or unfaithful.

I'm glad that Chris tagged me on this idea. Hope this was fun to read. Here's to hoping I can catch the blogging bug again.

Have a great day!

Up For Sale : 2 Great 2008 Redskins Season Tickets

2008-02-23T18:51:00.002-05:00

Hello again, internets. It's been a while.

I received my invoice for my Redskins season tickets today. I own 6 seats. I'm looking to sell 2 of those seats. If you're interested, leave a comment or email me at wrayenator@gmail.com.

Thanks!

Best American Idol per Salsera

2008-01-17T16:50:00.001-05:00

Everybody now..."I AM YOUR BROTHER...BEST FRIEND FOREVER..."

Hello, Sutherland!

2008-01-10T14:23:00.000-05:00

Sitemeter is a cool site.

It tells you where people are viewing your blog from in real time.

Recently, meaning today, there has been someone from Sutherland, VA looking at both me and my wife's blog A LOT.

Why do I even bother telling you this? Well, my wife and I have a mortal enemy in Sutherland. I wonder if it's them? I hope not. Anyway, hello Sutherland!

Suzanne is One Scary Lady

2008-01-09T08:13:00.001-05:00

Don't know if you've ever seen "Seeking Solutions With Suzanne," but I used to think she was just a harmless, old, cooky lady that made me laugh.

To watch her discuss this topic without getting freaked out is impossible.

Enjoy!

Can't a man just get a haircut?

2008-01-08T21:01:00.000-05:00

Southpark Mall was dead tonight. None of the typical crowd was there. I figured it would be a great time to walk in to the Hair Cuttery and get my unruly head of hair tamed. WRONG!

I walk in and promptly wait about 5 minutes until I'm even greeted. I'm then told I have 2 people in front of me, with about a 30 minute wait. No problem, I'll go check out the progress on the new food court.

About 15 minutes later I stroll back in to the Hair Cuttery, again wait about 5 minutes to be greeted, and then am told that a "gold member" came in for an appointment and I still have 2 people in front of me and about a 30 minute wait! Eventhough I wanted to, I didn't tell the ever helpful Hair Cuttery "stylist" what she could do with the absurdly named "gold member." I just told her to take me off the list and I left.

Seriously, I thought going to a place called the Hair Cuttery on a dead Tuesday night would be a great idea. Boy am I stupid! Now if only I can become a "gold member," I'd be set!

Go Honey, Go!

2008-01-07T09:31:00.000-05:00

My wife got some great news over the weekend. She got a job interview at a major company here in Richmond AND another major company called her back wanting to speak with her.

Belinda has been working really hard at a job she hates while temping. She wants to get a job in her field and, God willing, it looks like things are turning her way.

Please pray for her interview on Tuesday. Thanks!

Go get 'em honey!

Gladiators READY?!?

2008-01-06T23:30:00.000-05:00

Tonight was the debut of the new American Gladiators. Really that's all that needs to be said in this post, but I'll elaborate.

Anyone reading this blog will no doubt remember the first incarnation of this show. Not a whole lot has changed. As opposed to Larry Czonka and the dweeby dude being the hosts, Hulk Hogan and Layla Ali have taken on hosting duties. As an aside, let me just say that having out of breath contestants talking to Hulk Hogan and calling him the Hulkster is rich in and of itself.

The new batch of gladiators are hilarious. The three that stand out are Wolf, Titan, and Hellga. Per his name, Wolf howls anytime his name is mentioned and he has a group in the crowd called...wait for it... the wolf pack. Titan is probably one of the largest gladiators, but my wife swears he's gay. Why, I'm not sure, but I don't argue the gaydar. Finally, Hellga. No I didn't misspell her name. She's so scary that she deserves two L's in her name. Not that I'm against buff ladies, but come on! Hellga is no doubt very close to being a man. The picture at the beginning of this post says it all. She is very scary.

The contestants on tonight's show were hilarious. One guy was supposed to be on the original American Gladiators but got stuck in LA traffic so the producers gave his spot away. He didn't win this time and went a crying jag and started thanking everyone. For goodness' sakes man, you're on American Gladiators get over it!

The show comes on again tonight at 8 on NBC. Watch it.

Redskins Lose

2008-01-05T20:00:00.000-05:00

AAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!

They are who we thought they were! And we let 'em off the hook!

Hokies Disappoint...Skins WILL Win

2008-01-04T09:46:00.000-05:00

The Hokies put up a disappointing effort last night. A team can't expect to win when they turn the ball over three times for a score by their opponent.

Would've been nice to end with a BCS bowl win this season, but I'm still a Hokie through and through.

This Saturday's 'Skins playoff game will not yield such a disappointing outcome. Todd Collins and the boys will roll in to Seattle and come out with a hard fought win. It's supposed to be raining on Saturday (shocker for Seattle!). I predict a close game dominated by the run game. Clinton "Choo-Choo" Portis will be key. The final score will be around 23-21 with the Skins on top.

Hail to the Redskins!

One of the most awesome things to happen to you as a kid

2008-01-03T08:09:00.000-05:00

Yesterday was a big day for the kids. First day back at school since having 3 weeks off. They were excited and ready to roll. They got their clothes on and ate breakfast at a break-neck pace. The sibling fighting was even held to a bare minimum.

Time to roll out the door came and out they went. They started waiting for the bus in the unusually cold weather. They continued to wait. And waited some more.

A high school girl eventually came by to give them some of the best news a kid could get...school was put off for another day!

Grandma called school and verified the good news. The schools must have added an extra day of vacation because they hadn't used any snow days. We didn't know about it because we took them out a 3 day early to go to Disney.

Needless to say, the kids were stoked. K. went to Chuck E. Cheese with a friend while B. and C. spent most of the day playing "High School Musical:Sing It!" on the Wii.

Looking at this turn of events with adult eyes, it seems to me to be like waking up on Saturday, thinking it's Friday, getting ready for work, and then finding out it's truly Saturday. What an awesome end to a great Christmas break!

Wakka, wakka, wakka!

2008-01-02T08:19:00.001-05:00

This is the only ranking that I'll do from last year, but this video is easily the funniest thing I saw last year.

Enjoy!

Happy New Year! This is what this blog is gonna be for...

2008-01-01T10:16:00.000-05:00

I hope everyone had a great New Year's Eve last night. Our family stayed up to watch the ball drop. We had our "traditional" meal of appetizers and junk food. My girls made homemade confetti, which was a lot of fun to throw at midnight.

I post the above picture to get this blog back on track. Since this thing is named "Especially Blessed," I want to begin in the new year to refocus on my blessings. In case you can't tell what's going on in the picture, it was taken at "Mickey's Very Merry Christmas Party" with one of the best Santa's we've ever seen.

I'm blessed that we were able to go to Orlando this Christmas. I'm also blessed that we were able to buy a timeshare so we can go back next year.

Here's to a year full of blessings and being able to notice those blessings when they don't seem as obvious as a trip to Mickey's house.

I've joined a crazy group of folks

2007-12-31T13:12:00.000-05:00

I've really done it now... Richmond's own Kamen Lee has come up with the Blog365 idea. It's in the vein of NaBloPoMo, but as the name hints at, it's for every day in 2008.

At first I thought it was a crazy idea, but really think this can help me. This blog has wandered a bit since I started it. I want it to truly reflect the vision I'm narrowing down.

Here's to me posting till my fingers bleed!

BTW, if you're crazy enough to join, go to the Blog365 site by clicking here.

My RVABlogs Score Sucks

2007-12-26T15:43:00.000-05:00

Have you guys ever logged in to RVABlogs' Hott or Nott feature to see how your blog is ranked "the enigmatic RVABlogsScore"? Don't lie, you know you have!

Well, enigmatic is one word for it. I can't figure my score out at all. My wife, who doesn't post as much as me, is consistently ranked higher than me. Is it that the powers that be at RVABlogs just don't think my posts are any good? Do I need to talk more about Richmond? Is there really a ranking system at all?

Somebody help me out with this question of the ages!

[...] Dr. Cinderella....

2007-12-20T20:00:00.001-05:00

[...] Kayla got to meet Cinderella. Mission accomplished. listen

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Last night we went to...

2007-12-19T08:19:00.001-05:00

Last night we went to Mickey Mouse's Christmas Party and it was great fun. The kids danced with several of the characters. Today we're off to Disney Animal Kingdom, should be fun. listen

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Vacation is great. Am...

2007-12-18T14:21:00.001-05:00

Vacation is great. Am sitting pool side drinking a 32 ounce beer, kids are in the pool. We go to Disney World tonight. listen

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We're getting ready...

2007-12-14T19:59:00.001-05:00

We're getting ready to leave for Disney World. I'm excited. I hope kids are excited. I'm glad we're able to do this for our family. I will update my blog, hopefully, daily through Jott. Wish me luck. listen

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Richmond gets holiday love from CNN.com

2007-12-13T13:21:00.000-05:00

On cnn.com there is a story about how festive the RVA is during this time of year. Read here: http://www.cnn.com/2007/TRAVEL/getaways/12/13/richmond.virginia/index.html . Please enjoy.

Carry on and Merry Christmas!

Man...Going to the Happiest Place on Earth Shouldn't Be This Freakin' Hard

2007-12-12T10:57:00.000-05:00

Many of you don't know that a seminal event in our family's history is about to happen...the clan is packing up and going to Disney World for a week.

I gave this trip to my family as a Christmas gift last year. I'm really glad we're blessed enough to afford to go, but criminy this trip planning has been ridiculous.

I can't take anymore looking at activities, planning itineraries, disecting trip costs, etc.

We're all feeling the stress. My mother in law had the nerve to complain last night that we're not going to Sea World, when she is coming with us without paying a dime! Belinda is getting frazzled. The kids are so excited that they don't know what to do.

I hope this trip works out the way we want it to, but I know it probably won't and that's ok. I just hope my family knows how much I love them and that this trip will make us closer as a family. If not, at least we can all say we got to see Mickey without killing each other (I hope)!

100th Post - My wife's a badass!

2007-12-06T11:24:00.000-05:00

Several folks read my wife's post about the lessons learned as a wife.

For my widely anticipated 100th post, I figured I'd give you an example of why I love my wife.

Belinda is a Brownie leader in Colonial Heights. To my surprise, she's taken to it like a retriever to water. She loves it and is doing an awesome job.

Because a leader in the Colonial Heights Girl Scout Council dropped the ball, a lot of girls were not going to be able to participate in the Colonial Heights Christmas Parade. Basically, this leader didn't send any forms in while telling everyone that she did.

This is when Belinda becomes a badass...Belinda wasn't going to let her troop or other troops in the area miss out on the parade because of some knucklehead. She took the problem by the horns, got all the CH Girls in the parade, and even had a parent make an awesome banner for the girls to carry.

Their entry in the parade warms my heart because it meant so much to the girls and it was because of my beloved that they were able to particpate.

Good work honey! I love you!

Post 99

2007-11-30T08:31:00.000-05:00

This is officially post 99 of this blog. What have I learned in all previous 98 posts? Uh...well...not a whole lot.

Post 100 will I'm sure be unbelievable.

However, I am glad to see that my wife is posting again...Her last two posts have been great. Check them out here!

I won't keep you waiting for post 100 long...but there has to be some sense of suspense.

Great Take on Taylor Tragedy

2007-11-28T11:27:00.000-05:00

The death of Sean Taylor has been, and will continue to be, a story that captivates sports fans worldwide.

It unfortunately has lead people to jump to conclusions about Taylor. Mike Celizic at MSNBC.com posts a great take on his blog. Here's the link . It's a pretty well thought out bunch of commentary.